That probably seems obvious to most of the people reading this blog. Most of my friends would readily agree to this being truth.
But do we believe it?
Do we live in a way that we make decisions based on that being true?
Sometimes I’m guilty of saying I believe something to be true, but not living and making decisions like I believe it to be true.
I’ll give you an example.
Years ago, when I was expecting baby #2, we had moved away from “home” to a place where I knew exactly two people – my husband and baby #1.
I was young and embarassingly immature. I was exceedingly lonely. And I was sick as a dog with said baby. I don’t mean a little queasy in the mornings, but couldn’t eat or drink anything, losing weight, needing to be in the hospital multiple times sick as a dog. It was a dark time for me.
Why did God take me away from all the people who loved me and would have helped me? Why did we have to move to such a gloomy place (Cleveland, OH – no lie – check out their yearly cloud cover!)? Why did I have to be so stinking sick when other people “glowed” with pregnancy? In short, I was whining a lot and demanding of God, “Why do I have to suffer???”
Previous to this I know I would have given complete and confident verbal assent to the truth that all Christians will have to suffer at some time or another. I know this because I had already done it.
I knew 1 Peter 2 – where Peter tells us, “For to this (suffering well) you have been called, because Christ also suffered for you, leaving you an example so that you might follow in his steps.”
Intellectually I knew the implications of Matthew 16:24 where Jesus said to his disciples, “Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross daily and follow me.”
And I could have quoted John 15:20 where Jesus said, “Remember what I told you, ‘A servant is not greater than his master.’ If they have persecuted me they will persecute you also…” and John 16:33 where Jesus said, “I have told you these things so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble…”
But in both cases I would have focused on the ends of those verses – “If they have persecuted me they will persecute you also. If they have obeyed my teaching they will obey yours also.” And, “In this world you will have trouble, but take heart, for I have overcome the world.”
Glossing over the hard parts doesn’t make the hard parts, well, not hard.
As I lay in my bed, wasting away under the call to bring a new life into the world I did not celebrate this high calling – I railed against it. I raised my ridiculously small fist at the Almighty God of the Universe and demanded to know, “WHY!?!”
That’s just one example of how I didn’t want to suffer any real pain or inconvenience – unfortunately, there have been many.
In all those times what I really needed was to understand the truths that these passages and others like them are really saying.
Here’s what I’ve learned that Jesus is really saying to me… and to all those he is calling to follow Him:
“Laurie – life is going to be hard if you are going to be my disciple. You are going to experience all kinds of hardships simply because you belong to me. They may be a little hard, or they may be exceedingly hard – to the point of pain or torture or death. But don’t be afraid. In fact, be bold! For nothing will happen to you that isn’t from my hand and no one can take you from me or my care – I have overcome everything that stands between you and me. Trust me in all things. Following me will be worth infinitely more than you can imagine.”
I’ve continued to need to learn, in fuller and fuller measure, what this really means in the daily things of life.
Will I step in to difficult situations knowing full well that they will be painful, because God is calling me to them? Will I stop and help that person? Will I go into that neighborhood? Will I go into that country? Will I go back, again, to engage that difficult person? Will I risk comfort and safety and reputation to tell others what Jesus wants them to know?
And perhaps harder still, will I take my children into those situations because they need to learn how to do those same things? Will I support my children going into “dangerous” situations without me because they believe God is calling them there?
This is where the rubber meets the road. These are the daily, ordinary kinds of things we all face but want to run away from. This is where our decisions reflect what we really believe.
If I really believe what Jesus says is true, then my answers to those questions will need to based on that truth.
If I really believe what Jesus says is true, I will value his direction for my life more than I will value my personal space, or comforts, or safety, or reputation.
If I really believe what Jesus says is true, then like the believers in North Africa, or China, or the MIddle East, I would be willing to go to jail or be beaten or even put to death in order to tell my friends and neighbors about Jesus… because them going to hell is worse than me going to jail.